‘I Don’t Ask Myself Why You’re In This Situation; I Ask Myself Why Not,’ Dr. Phil Tells Guest


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  • Emily Hutchins
    Emily Hutchins  5 days back

    What breaks my heart is knowing a person who experience sexual abuse at a young age, is more likely become victim to it again. The fact her parents did not help her, put less believes her, made her psychological and mental state 20x worse

    • Cindy Loo Hoo
      Cindy Loo Hoo  5 days back

      Does anyone know where the recording of this entire show is? TY!

      • Bob Tom
        Bob Tom  6 days back

        Parents who don't help their children should be hung. Like mine.

        • hmmcinerney
          hmmcinerney  5 days back

          Bob Tom I hope you're surviving and thriving. Don't let it be your rock to carry.

      • Jess Marie
        Jess Marie  6 days back

        As a child of a women whose had a lot of sexual trauma at a young age it makes a lot of sense. It stunts their reasoning and their self esteem greatly

        • M
          M  6 days back

          Her face at 0:46 says it all when he shows her what he did- someone actually cares

          • Living Eternally
            Living Eternally  1 weeks back

            This is super sad, but I’m glad Dr. Phil can help her get to the route of things.

            • EnderoftheEnd
              EnderoftheEnd  1 weeks back

              "I've been doing this a long time" -Dr. Phil

              • ne one_ _
                ne one_ _  1 weeks back

                Dr. Phil you need to fire your interior decorator.... That is all.

                • Katie B
                  Katie B  1 weeks back

                  Dr phil is amazing

                  • SpookySushi
                    SpookySushi  1 weeks back

                    she looks like elsa :0 💓

                    • Olivia Garey
                      Olivia Garey  1 weeks back

                      Somebody tell her that she can get paid to walk

                    • Miss Lucid Dreams
                      Miss Lucid Dreams  1 weeks back

                      I wish Dr Phil could help me understand y I act the way I do...☹

                      • Victoria R
                        Victoria R  7 days back

                        go to a therapist you dont need dr phil

                      • Roxanna Zales
                        Roxanna Zales  1 weeks back

                        Miss Lucid Dreams go on the show, it’s easy

                    • Berenice Martinez
                      Berenice Martinez  1 weeks back

                      Damn I get it and it’s validation

                      • cianaxbeauty
                        cianaxbeauty  1 weeks back

                        what channel is doctor phil on? can you watch it on an app?

                        • Chloe Huggs
                          Chloe Huggs  1 weeks back

                          Can Dr Phil do one of those puzzle things to figure out why my life is a mess too please, thanks.

                        • john boy
                          john boy  1 weeks back

                          Doc phil is on crack how did this clown get his own show ,,,

                        • Lina Forsth
                          Lina Forsth  1 weeks back

                          Shes so beautiful wth, hope she gets better❤

                          • Jonathan Cook
                            Jonathan Cook  1 weeks back

                            She needs to reduce gluten intake and sugar.. She needs a Honey Peanutbutter sandwich in the Morning on Wheat Bread to start the Iron put back into her Body.. she can have Avocado Salad.. I am guessing she is trying for Vegetarian Diet.. So, cut the milk and Cereal at night because the sugar of the Cake is mixed with the milk producing what she Identifies as Fat.. but it is swollen and excited muscle that is lacking of iron in her blood.. if she fixes her diet along the lines to actually line up basic human needs to survive, her fibromyalgia will start to subside. Eat Fruits at night to relace the cake.. different fruits please.. they have different nutritional values.. but provide water to your system for at night comfort and recovery. Your system might feel shocked.. give it 4 days and then muscle recovery will be easier.. your system is fighting you causing panic because of hydration and lack of iron in your blood.. natural sugars are better than processed food like icing..

                            • frumT18
                              frumT18  1 weeks back

                              I feel so sad for this poor woman she seems so sad and genuine. I hope she gets better.

                            • Scorch1028
                              Scorch1028  1 weeks back

                              This condition sucks. This woman has no time for anything else in her life.

                              • Steven L
                                Steven L  1 weeks back

                                Dr Phil you help people so much thank you.. also your hand writing is awesome actually

                                • lilfirefoxx
                                  lilfirefoxx  1 weeks back

                                  im surprised shes not thinner tbh

                                • Jennifer Berryhill
                                  Jennifer Berryhill  1 weeks back

                                  Can anyone not get past his bizarre house? I get he has to be normal for his job, so it makes sense... but that house.... I love it though.

                                  • Jenn Dear
                                    Jenn Dear  1 weeks back

                                    Jennifer Berryhill if you’re talking about the nightmare before Xmas house he was renting that out. That wasn’t his personal decor.

                                • NayNay H.
                                  NayNay H.  1 weeks back

                                  Makes sense. I hope shes finds out how to self therapy in a healthy way..

                                  • Mel B
                                    Mel B  1 weeks back

                                    I just cant stop looking at her... She is SO GORGEOUS. 😘😘

                                    • ImperfectMind
                                      ImperfectMind  5 days back

                                      You're disgusting. How can any of you comment on her appearance after watching this video??
                                      That's not something that should be a topic of interest in this situation.

                                    • Lori Vangelov
                                      Lori Vangelov  1 weeks back

                                      Carolyn Nigro jello Carolyn?

                                    • Nicky Howard
                                      Nicky Howard  1 weeks back

                                      @Lindsay Nash that's true, and it's really sad too.

                                    • Lindsay Nash
                                      Lindsay Nash  1 weeks back

                                      @Nicky Howard I hope so too. A lot of people who go through trauma don't see themselves as beautiful.

                                    • Nicky Howard
                                      Nicky Howard  1 weeks back

                                      She is gorgeous, I really hope she's able to see that people do care for her

                                  • Des Des
                                    Des Des  1 weeks back

                                    It must have been such a relief to this woman to be told that her response is reasonable. She didn't fail--she responded in a way that makes sense considering her circumstances. And now she can, with the right help, rise above.

                                    • yoyoyojeremy
                                      yoyoyojeremy  1 weeks back

                                      shes gotta be super fit

                                      • Spy Ninjas Family
                                        Spy Ninjas Family  1 weeks back

                                        Yay we can comment now

                                        • Madilynn Jay
                                          Madilynn Jay  1 weeks back

                                          Love this🙏🏽❤️

                                          • pessimistic college student

                                            "My father didnt believe me."

                                            I feel fury. Fury in my bones.

                                            • Riceracm
                                              Riceracm  1 weeks back

                                              pessimistic college student I’m sorry if that also happened to you. On a lighter note, I second what macveel veelmac said....

                                            • Allie
                                              Allie  1 weeks back

                                              pessimistic college student
                                              my heart hurts for her

                                            • macveel veelmac
                                              macveel veelmac  1 weeks back

                                              your name and your pfp, amazing.
                                              sorry its off topic but

                                          • R bergs
                                            R bergs  1 weeks back

                                            Dr. Phil is such a great person, he embodies his worldly family, he really does treat everyone like his brother or sister, exactly why God created us, as His human family. This is what happens to someone when they have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ, as Dr. Phil does. Intelligence and respect for others. Forget religion. But don't forget who your Father is. ♥️

                                            • Kim Murrell
                                              Kim Murrell  1 weeks back

                                              Empaths goes through so much.

                                              • Alice Cheshire
                                                Alice Cheshire  5 days back

                                                Isabella I always get headaches and you can’t ever really enjoy yourself at a party! They’re just so many energies and so many emotions that it’s dizzying! It just plain sucks!

                                              • Isabella
                                                Isabella  5 days back

                                                Alice Cheshire it really does!
                                                I can never feel my own emotions because I’m too busy feeling everyone else’s on top of mine,
                                                And I’m so overwhelmed with emotions all the time whether it’s mine, someone else’s or both

                                              • Alice Cheshire
                                                Alice Cheshire  5 days back

                                                Isabella It hurts

                                              • Isabella
                                                Isabella  1 weeks back

                                                Kim Murrell tell me about it ugh 😩

                                            • 1Million subs with no Videos

                                              You may be wondering why I’m self promoting my self to a million subscribers.

                                              • Teri D
                                                Teri D  1 weeks back

                                                I love you Dr Phil! I remember the day Oprah brought you on her show. You have guided me ever since with your books, program and now podcasts. Thank you! I could be HER sitting there!!!

                                                • Wheelstar72
                                                  Wheelstar72  1 weeks back

                                                  Dr Phil for a smart Man U can’t spell attempts

                                                  • Elizabeth Crossley
                                                    Elizabeth Crossley  1 weeks back

                                                    Self awareness is a huge life lesson... once you figure out where your issues come from and what has affected you and changed you.. then you'll start to recover

                                                    • Ala Alfa
                                                      Ala Alfa  1 weeks back

                                                      ..Experts say your unconscious mind is million times stronger than conscious mind...so maybe therefore the stress trigers have such big impact...but Bruce Lipton says its good to "fall in love" (romantic love or love to job) so it will make people more conscious during a day.

                                                    • Miss Lucid Dreams
                                                      Miss Lucid Dreams  1 weeks back

                                                      I agree...u can't begin the healing process until u can look at yourself and admit there is a problem and u need help ❤

                                                    • Evan Reese
                                                      Evan Reese  1 weeks back

                                                      self insight is one of the biggest things you need to learn

                                                    • Your Worst Nightmare
                                                      Your Worst Nightmare  1 weeks back

                                                      If you want to.

                                                    • Appie Bear
                                                      Appie Bear  1 weeks back

                                                      100% it’s kind of like a peek into your life from a 3rd party. Once you figure it out and where it stems from, you start to understand and recover

                                                  • Mande Gianfala
                                                    Mande Gianfala  1 weeks back

                                                    People don’t understand that once the sexual abuse starts, it’s like a snowball effect. You’re more likely to be raped multiple times, abused multiple times. People start to think you’re making it up for attention but that’s not the case. That’s why many of us stay silent.

                                                    • alexandro sosa
                                                      alexandro sosa  1 weeks back

                                                      White people problems lol... I'm white

                                                      • meow
                                                        meow  1 weeks back

                                                        Been through the same situations as her and react to life the same way. I wish he also gave advice in this video on how to deal with it instead of just explaining it

                                                        • Raven Willow Grimm
                                                          Raven Willow Grimm  1 weeks back

                                                          meow same

                                                        • AsHLiegH-MaRie HoPe
                                                          AsHLiegH-MaRie HoPe  1 weeks back

                                                          The reasons won't ever be te same... And u gotta watch the whole episode. Way more is talled about in detail.

                                                      • --
                                                        --  1 weeks back

                                                        I wish he could tell me why I have OCD

                                                        • Adam 1
                                                          Adam 1  5 days back

                                                          Sushi Mamba Well said.

                                                        • --
                                                          --  6 days back

                                                          It hadnt happened until my later years. And just recently other obsessive behaviors have been going on 😞

                                                        • Sushi Mamba
                                                          Sushi Mamba  1 weeks back

                                                          There's always a reason why we behave the way we do. I suggest finding a therapist who specialises in dealing with that particular issue. Speaking from personal experience: if you do nothing, nothing will change.

                                                        • Adam 1
                                                          Adam 1  1 weeks back

                                                          TIO Best of luck to YOU. Let’s end the stigma, friend! 🙂

                                                        • TIO
                                                          TIO  1 weeks back

                                                          There can be many reasons why someone develops OCD. It can be from other things such as anxiety or ptsd. It can stem from many things, but you should without a doubt see a doctor who can help you find a specialist for OCD.
                                                          Nothing can be simply solved by knowing what's wrong. As someone who knows they have psychosis, knowing that doesn't help when my delusions and hallucinations take place. Medication and therapy and working through things with a specialist will be the best route, or maybe just therapy or even just meds. It's down to you and your docs to help decide what's best. Best luck to you

                                                      • Allen Zhang
                                                        Allen Zhang  1 weeks back

                                                        awesome hair

                                                        • Swisher
                                                          Swisher  1 weeks back

                                                          I can relate to this so much! Things are much better now on the outside but on the inside I'm not so sure! It would truly be a blessing if I got help from Dr. Phil! Me and my family!

                                                          • Niki Tee
                                                            Niki Tee  1 weeks back

                                                            I'm not sure he will reply but I definitely recommend you see your doctor and get referred to a psychiatrist.. best thing I ever did.

                                                        • SophiaSavageBeast
                                                          SophiaSavageBeast  1 weeks back

                                                          Doctor phill is the white version of La doctors polo for the Spanish Latina people out here 🇲🇽😂✌🏻

                                                          • Rainbow Donald
                                                            Rainbow Donald  1 weeks back

                                                            I needed to hear the word you spoke in this video. I really needed to hear this dr phill . Word no one in a small town will tell you . No one to help with ptsd truly love that you are here to teach me the this I could not get in a small town in Canada

                                                            • Amanda 'mandy'
                                                              Amanda 'mandy'  1 weeks back

                                                              @Simon48 you can live in Canada and english not be your first language XD surprises me how little some people understand the world

                                                            • Bárbara Paixão
                                                              Bárbara Paixão  1 weeks back

                                                              I live in Brazil and I cried when he explained all that to her. Sometimes I wonder why people goes to his show and expose their private lifes and today I understood. He is the best in the business. I can relate to everything he said and I needed that so much

                                                            • Simon48
                                                              Simon48  1 weeks back

                                                              Your English doesn't suggest you're from Canada

                                                          • Cody Huff
                                                            Cody Huff  1 weeks back

                                                            One kick by her and you'll have a broken bone

                                                            • WAP
                                                              WAP  1 weeks back

                                                              We are so lucky this man has chosen the life path he has. Have to admire his abilities and sincerity.

                                                              • mao
                                                                mao  1 weeks back

                                                                Em Gee thank god. we dont need two of those

                                                              • Aron Heathcock
                                                                Aron Heathcock  1 weeks back

                                                                Em Gee 🙄

                                                              • Aron Heathcock
                                                                Aron Heathcock  1 weeks back

                                                                Shane McNab not unlike the mega church in your playlist

                                                              • Clacky Tacky
                                                                Clacky Tacky  1 weeks back

                                                                bruh which man

                                                            • Kym Samal
                                                              Kym Samal  1 weeks back

                                                              OCD ?

                                                              • Eve
                                                                Eve  1 weeks back

                                                                Even though Dr Phil doesn't have any actual psychiatry qualifications he's still very insightful and is very helpful

                                                                • Alex T.
                                                                  Alex T.  1 weeks back

                                                                  He went on to earn an M.A. in experimental psychology in 1976, and a Ph. D. degree in clinical psychology in 1979 at the University of North Texas, where his dissertation was titled "Rheumatoid Arthritis: A Psychological Intervention".
                                                                  Education: The University of Tulsa, Midwestern State University, Shawnee Mission N...
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                                                                • Just a bad penny
                                                                  Just a bad penny  1 weeks back

                                                                  @Pablo Gonzalez I know, I'm just guessing what they mean.

                                                                • Pablo Gonzalez
                                                                  Pablo Gonzalez  1 weeks back

                                                                  @Just a bad penny Licensing is an administrative process it does not detract from his tangible qualifications

                                                                • Webkinzgirl240
                                                                  Webkinzgirl240  1 weeks back

                                                                  Eve agree

                                                                • Just a bad penny
                                                                  Just a bad penny  1 weeks back

                                                                  @Pablo Gonzalez I think they're referring to the fact he's no longer licensed maybe.