Woman Claims Her Ex Uses Their Kids As ‘Pawns’ To Pressure Her Into Reconciling


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  • Star light Kid
    Star light Kid  2 days back

    How did she marry this dude in the first place?

    • Medicint20
      Medicint20  2 days back

      She’s also an idiot for not getting the heck out of there. If I were her, I would move to another state.

      • Jonah
        Jonah  2 days back

        I disagree with dr phil i think he already lets his anger get the best of him and he hurts his kids. He’s possessive of his ex. It’s a recipe for a tragedy. I hope for her sake she runs and keeps him from being alone with them. Girl move into a small one bedroom apartment i. A bad part of town if thats what it takes I’m willing to bet that those kids would be happier in a smaller space with their mom knowing she’s happy and at peace than witnessing the disfunction between their biological parents.

        • James Arciaga
          James Arciaga  3 days back


          • Jeff Lane
            Jeff Lane  5 days back

            Elf's have the worst temper

            • Rose Dodgergirl
              Rose Dodgergirl  7 days back

              Arrest him! Also, does he not listen to what he's saying

              • Emokiriemi Abednego
                Emokiriemi Abednego  1 weeks back

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                • Vlone PNW
                  Vlone PNW  1 weeks back

                  She’s fine thoo

                  • Rosalyne Bannatyne
                    Rosalyne Bannatyne  1 weeks back

                    dr phil needs to stop being so lenient on this guy, look at all the license he thinks he has just cuz hes being afforded the time to be heard, while they're conveniently blaming her "whims" for the divorce and not his behavior, one day hes going to lash out and harm her in a fit of jealousy or anger because she wont comply with him. theres just something abt him and those huge ears.. he thinks ppl cant tell what kind of darkness he has lurking, and it bothers him that his wife saw it, so naturally, hes gaslighting and trying to recover his facade. typical

                    • Brandi Victoriano
                      Brandi Victoriano  1 weeks back

                      Hes is going to end up killing her, the kids and himself. He needs control. I hope she takes them kids and gets far far away.

                      • Crystal Timbrook
                        Crystal Timbrook  1 weeks back

                        That guys insane and she’s eventually going to one of them wives that get acid or something worse thrown on her

                        • Ally B
                          Ally B  1 weeks back

                          Waiting to see this man on the news talking about "mental breaking point, man kills ex wife who refused to get back together with him."

                          Run girl run

                          • Lionoa
                            Lionoa  1 weeks back

                            What an absolutely disgusting man.

                            • Carlina Ibiza
                              Carlina Ibiza  2 weeks back

                              She deserves everything she’s getting. I have no sympathy for her. I don’t understand why she remotely thought living in the same house would be a good idea. If she wants change, she needs to make it happen

                              • Narice Ferguson
                                Narice Ferguson  2 weeks back


                                • Jus- Sayin
                                  Jus- Sayin  2 weeks back

                                  This man cheated ? Well he wanted out to the point. He wanted someone else , yes . If he wants someone else he's lost his mate. Now it's her choice. Not His. He's done, he's gone. He chose someone else. He did this if he cheated. Let him have the Bimbo. Walk Momma, Walk.

                                  • Tanner Ryan
                                    Tanner Ryan  2 weeks back

                                    He looks like an alien

                                    • Brett Segmento
                                      Brett Segmento  2 weeks back

                                      Omg move out of that house, girl! Jeez! You're gonna die in there!

                                      • jane patric
                                        jane patric  2 weeks back

                                        I'm watching Grimm videos and I swear this dude looks like a bird like wessen

                                        • Mini Hair Dresser
                                          Mini Hair Dresser  2 weeks back

                                          Find a cheaper place to live both of you share custody and move on for your sake and the kids sakes esp

                                          • Larry Trusty
                                            Larry Trusty  2 weeks back

                                            They are both pathetic

                                            • Grace Kelly
                                              Grace Kelly  2 weeks back

                                              They’re both so self-absorbed

                                              • *POW* PunkOnWhiskey
                                                *POW* PunkOnWhiskey  2 weeks back

                                                This lady definitely could do and certainly deserves a lot better than this goon she divorced.

                                                • Anistasia ••••
                                                  Anistasia ••••  2 weeks back

                                                  This guy looks like Megamind😂😂😂

                                                  • Susan Inika
                                                    Susan Inika  2 weeks back

                                                    OMG, this story is so much like my friend and her narcissistic ex husband.

                                                    • tabby gale
                                                      tabby gale  2 weeks back

                                                      Get away from this man!!!he is a narcissist! An energy vampire , a bad bad bad person

                                                      • Miss Lucid Dreams
                                                        Miss Lucid Dreams  2 weeks back

                                                        She needs to leave for her children and herself...

                                                        • Griffith Guts
                                                          Griffith Guts  2 weeks back

                                                          Omfg I know how this feels

                                                          • Alexis Cou
                                                            Alexis Cou  2 weeks back

                                                            His son gonna grow up to be a piece of trash just like his father if this continues

                                                            • Chloe Parker
                                                              Chloe Parker  2 weeks back

                                                              This women needs a medal for sticking up with him he horrid

                                                              • Boo Boo
                                                                Boo Boo  2 weeks back

                                                                Rip to her if she doesn't run from him

                                                                • Ivy Kat
                                                                  Ivy Kat  2 weeks back

                                                                  He’s a pos, he was grooming her. Just as bad as Onision.🤢

                                                                  • BigSky Family
                                                                    BigSky Family  2 weeks back

                                                                    You slept with an 18yr, then wonder why your wife doesn't want to be with you? Boy, you better grow some hair because your ears are sticking out further than your nose Pinocchio! 🤭

                                                                    • Crusita Rodriguez
                                                                      Crusita Rodriguez  2 weeks back

                                                                      Does it irritate anyone else that he says “the kid” instead of “my son” or “our son” ??

                                                                      • Why do I Have subscribers
                                                                        Why do I Have subscribers  4 days back

                                                                        @Caroline x You can still say 'my son' instead of ' the kid'. Sorry but, bad argument there.

                                                                      • Caroline x
                                                                        Caroline x  1 weeks back

                                                                        @Katherine Kurzius they might not want to use the kids' names to protect their privacy

                                                                      • Crusita Rodriguez
                                                                        Crusita Rodriguez  2 weeks back

                                                                        Marissa Cervantes omg I didn’t even realize that!

                                                                      • Marissa Cervantes
                                                                        Marissa Cervantes  2 weeks back

                                                                        He also refers to her as "the woman"

                                                                      • Katherine Kurzius
                                                                        Katherine Kurzius  2 weeks back

                                                                        Yes, me too. Maybe (radical concept) he could occasionally call his son by his actual name?

                                                                    • Abigael Roy
                                                                      Abigael Roy  2 weeks back

                                                                      He does not respect her at all.

                                                                      • Ryan Waidalowski
                                                                        Ryan Waidalowski  2 weeks back

                                                                        It’s not her fault at all. You cheated you idiot and she is drop dead gorgeous . You need to cheat on that.

                                                                        • A Li
                                                                          A Li  2 weeks back

                                                                          I see chihuahua ears. No offence x

                                                                          • Michelle Bonardo
                                                                            Michelle Bonardo  2 weeks back

                                                                            Did your son say this before or after you mentioned cheating on her for 5 out of the ten years of your marriage with an 18 year old?

                                                                            • California Cobra
                                                                              California Cobra  2 weeks back

                                                                              That man has got ears like satellite dishes lol! 😂

                                                                              • Sky
                                                                                Sky  2 weeks back

                                                                                just.... throw the whole man away

                                                                                • KATZ
                                                                                  KATZ  2 weeks back

                                                                                  she looks like kat von d and he looks like a rat

                                                                                  • Freedomofspeech24
                                                                                    Freedomofspeech24  2 weeks back

                                                                                    He’s gonna get violent with her, there’s something about him.

                                                                                    • chickle-G
                                                                                      chickle-G  2 weeks back


                                                                                      • Jenn Memphis
                                                                                        Jenn Memphis  2 weeks back

                                                                                        I wish my husband and I could have had a mediator like this. My ex wouldn't even show up to couples therapy down the street, much less to Dr. Phil. Too bad.

                                                                                        • Jonathan Cook
                                                                                          Jonathan Cook  2 weeks back

                                                                                          Doug.. Just walk away. Quit Drugs and alcohol. Find a new place. Get a no contact order for the Ex.. you need to walk away.. your lawyer needs to know your financial records so Child Support can be figured out, to get you outta that house.. I do see both of you as conflicted parents.. she chose you.. females play long term.. if you get and stay sober,, you will see the situation.. She is manipulating you.. she is playing the system.. you need to walk away and just pay what bills show up, for your own safety.. they are trying to brake you.. I see you using self control on stage. It is not a tap out.. you had 2 kids. She has been manipulating you Doug. Walking away is sometimes the best thing to do. She needs to get a cheaper place.. the lawyer needs to address finances to the judge. Having money is Great when you are single.. but you are the parent. Your kids will understand when they are adults. But you should've put on your big boy pants and walked away long ago.. now, you are called a "powder keg".. meaning you need to Identify and Understand yourself.. you need to understand how to be a Grown-Up and how your Ex is trying to play you.. you need to get to safety.. let her go.. do what you need to do for your kids. Your Ex is a Grown-up playing the victim card, over and over.. meaning, she is making you out to be a monster and playing your emotions and children.. you need to make distance. Because she is full on playing you and the courts can't stop her because you are not grown enough to walk away. She won't stop contacting you. She uses the Kids to make conversation to Get Reactions Time after Time.. she puts Responsibility on to you.. you are not recognizing this.. she already made you out to be walking around with an explosive vest.. find an empty space and deactivate your bomb after you understand your layout.. You are your own EOD technician in this situation because She is making your known report. So, walk out. Provide for your Kids the best you can.. that will mean you stepping up to show Success throughout Time. Both parents made this situation.. she is projecting you as the power source.. you need to get help so you understand how to argue using actions.. Being a Male, you need to Compromise immediately.. you haven't Compromised to walk away. IDK why? Dr. Phil is talking to you Doug.. meaning he finds you coherent.. you just don't understand your multi-position. Your Ex hasn't accepted any responsibility. She could've said no to your Drug Use long ago.. but she has been playing you. Walk away. Don't take her freedom.. She will self destruct herself with out you to play.. so, you getting restrictions and Compromising her as a Loss, is the smartest thing for you to do. Not letting her feed your nature is called "Adult Thinking".. you need to remove her and just be a Provider.. Dr. Phil doesn't understand how to explain it.. She made the Situation. She is setting you up to fail so she can go on to play victimhood.. you wouldn't be the first man to experience this. She is going to get worse Doug. She is going to keep playing you. Just step off being on the ground.. you need to find your ground.. because she is trying to take it. If you have any ground.. use it to distance yourself immediately so you can fix you. She has you made as a hostage.. you need to escape because she is manipulating you to be targeted by society. So, making distance in an open field so Doctors can De-escalate the situation is the smartest thing to do. You have no other choice. She is trying to kill you so she can play the Victim Card about a relationship that she set up from the beginning probably.. just walk away so she has no one to play as the Abuser that is acting irrationally.. because if you show up rational and self identified.. she looses all power to Trigger you.. be there for your kids.. Don't hate the woman just yet because you don't know her level.. she has made your level.. so, take the stairs down and enjoy your ground.. you need stairs so you can understand the process step by step.. you liked working out.. so take the steps and save yourself for your kids. They will understand one Day.. but you need to make it to that day.. you need personal development and self reflection. Your Ex doesn't want that, because she will loose her control over you and not beable to play victimhood because the court would be able to hear you out for the rest of your life.. this is Personal Accountability and Taking Responsibility. But you are your own risk and everyone knows this but you.. Get it? You identify yourself as a Father.. well, your Ex is trying to kill you.. So, she can play Female Victim. Give her Freedom.. Defuse.. She is using your Alpha Mentality against you.. Meaning you have always been Bata.. and she is going to play you in to submission and self destruction.. there really isn't Alpha or Bata.. because once Responsibility is forgotten and personal accountability becomes doped.. you are running around like a ticking time bomb..

                                                                                          • Jonathan Cook
                                                                                            Jonathan Cook  2 weeks back

                                                                                            If Amy actually cared about you.. she would need half the time to recover before moving on.. so, atleast 4 years before finding next relationship.. if any less than 4 years, she is proving herself as never have cared.. so she is manipulating you Doug.. just so she can move on as a victim of violence.. she wouldn't have to take Responsibility, and she would be on to the next person she is going to do the same thing to. She is trying to blame you and self destruct the evidence that you may be able to bring to court to explain the situation from your angle and "Man'splain" your view.. but you need to be Drug and Alcohol Free to explain yourself Doug. You need to explain your rationality and take responsibility, because that Female is playing your human nature.. and has been for years obviously.. find your ground to find yourself. Society only knows actions. Walking away and getting help is a huge action that she really doesn't want you to get. She needs you to be emotionally involved so she can play with your Man Hood, and discredit you as a Father. You are playing into a Basic Female Play. So, let her go. Let her see the man you see yourself as.. over time, you will move on.. and she will self destruct herself because she made Game and used her Children as Pawns.. you need to get your children into adulthood so they can sustain themselves apart from their parents so they can have families. But your Ex isn't trying to let you get that far, because then you can explain yourself.. and she would be exposed and.. Vanity would self destruct exposing herself as a Bad Person. And no woman wants to live to be explained as to being an accident during a good'old "Man'splanation" 🤣

                                                                                        • liz sipp
                                                                                          liz sipp  2 weeks back

                                                                                          This guy is despicable . What a selfish a$$ . No accountability .

                                                                                          • gena russell
                                                                                            gena russell  2 weeks back

                                                                                            I say he has a lil member and needed to feel good about his self

                                                                                            • Duplex Clover
                                                                                              Duplex Clover  2 weeks back

                                                                                              He said