Trans Guy Reacting to Trisha Paytas


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  • Jammidodger
    Jammidodger   2 months back

    Hey Spuds! Hope you’re not too fed up with this by now. I don’t think theres any point in chucking a barrage of hate over this tbh, there’s obviously something going on (trans or not - it’s not up to us to say), and even if there isn’t, it’s a waste of time to just shout without being constructive. What did need to happen though is calling out damaging wording and misinformation.
    Hope you liked the video xx

    • Elin Hagberg
      Elin Hagberg  1 weeks back

      @AmalaFrequents I am not to fond of labels but I fall in what others would call non-biary. I do get a sense of non-binary, gender fluid, gender queer in this very confused statement. I still struggle to this day to explain what I feel on the inside as the person I am so I could see myself saying weird stuff if I tried to explain it. I tend to say just say I don't know how to explain and I don't post videos on youtube.

    • Bumble Lee
      Bumble Lee  2 weeks back

      Love your videos! Totally helped me a lot ❤️

    • Derek A
      Derek A  1 months back

      same s u thank you for taking the time to replay to my comment and for the encouragement. Recently, my parents are starting to come around. Also i believe you are right about the fact that she is not trans. However, as for Trisha marrying a straight man. And i am not defending Trisha. But marrying a straight man or women doesn’t make one any less trans. Jamie is marrying a cisgender straight women. The fact that Trisha is marrying a straight man would not be evidence for her not being Trans. However, all the other things that are listed would be and can be considered evidence. And i diff not believe she is trans but not because she is marrying a straight man.

    • same s u
      same s u  1 months back

      @Derek A I'm very sorry about the way your family isn't accepting of who you Really Are inside. I couldn't ever imagine being treated that way. I am a straight female but, my sister is a Lesbian. It was the beginning of the 80's when she was outed by my Mom finding love letters of hers. Being a Christian it was super hard on her at first but, she was never mean to my sister and we all helped her adjust to her new reality. Although she was not by any means ready to come out of the closet. She was outed shortly after we found out, in High School by the female my sister had called it quits with. My sister was mortified. Back then it was extremely hard for LGBTQ people because it was far from being considered okay to be Gay, Lesbian or anything else in that spectrum. She was not treated very kind by most of her classmates but, she Did have friends that stuck with and by her all of the time.

      Aids was on the rise at that time. I believe the first time hearing of it was when we all found out that Rock Hudson was dying from it and, he came out of the closet at that time also. Of course, we did not have a lot of info on Aids for a long time. Oh, I failed to mention that our Dad, who was divorced from our Mom, did Not accept my sister until she was like in her 30's. He was Horrible to her! But, I just want to encourage you to become who YOU need to BE! If you have a family that really loves you, they will eventually come around. I truly believe that. In the meantime surround yourself with lots of friends who are the same or very similar to you to which you are able to talk about what you are going through and, how you are feeling. I'm sure your family will come around when they see how serious you are about your life and, how much you need their love and support.

      When it comes to Trisha. Don't let Her detur how you really think and feel. She, from what I know and have seen from some interviews of her, seems Very, Very off-kilter. I have seen No Real evidence that she is or has Ever Been Transgender. She does a lot of things for attention and, she is in Serious need of some mental help. Or she is back on Drugs Again. She said the last time she did Meth and pills was in May of this year. She admits to doing a lot of Drugs and Alcohol for a lot of her life. That is a Huge Warning Sign to me. She has admitted she has done them and made Videos. Maybe she has fried a lot of her brain cells. Maybe she suffers from some kind of mental illness And, does Drugs and Alcohol. I just cannot understand Any of what she was saying in this video but, she is Not Trans that's for sure! I Just saw an interview and she said she's getting married to a Straight Man this week and, showed her engagement ring! Blows All that she said right out of the Water! So, please just stay away from watching Toxic people's videos and stick with people like Jamie who's videos have Real Purpose and are not all insane. I hope it all works out for you. N Hey, if you need to talk just get back to me through here okay?!

    • Jordan Laycock
      Jordan Laycock  2 months back

      I think you said that perfectly.

  • ashton jaymes
    ashton jaymes  2 hours back

    I'm a transman and I have long hair and I see it as my mane, it's very masculine to me. I DEFINITELY dont consider myself "femme" in any way, even though I have long thick hair. I have no interest in cutting my hair off but I'm just as male as any cisgender man who has long hair, and there are many.

    • Berger Queen
      Berger Queen  5 hours back

      "I identify as both a trans man and as a lesbian"- trisha

      • Megan 's world
        Megan 's world  13 hours back

        She sounds uneducated
        I would love male priviledge and relate to what she is saying BUT i identify 100% as a female

        • BananaBear
          BananaBear  21 hours back

          “I don’t like being the center of attention unless I want to be the center of attention.”

          Yep that is how it works.

          • Shubanator 9000
            Shubanator 9000  1 days back

            Ohhh so she’s ftm then mtf....wait no what the fuck

            • Skylar Pippinger
              Skylar Pippinger  1 days back

              "I like gay men because they're masculine, give off masculine energy, but are also sensitive"
              My boyfriend is bi and he cries when I tell him I can't wait to marry him. Like... Dudes can be sensitive regardless of sexuality.

              • Zoe Collyer
                Zoe Collyer  1 days back

                Wow just wow! She’s a Moron! I’m a Cis female who prefers male company, I am super boyish in how I dress and act but I do not want to be a male, I’m still me this is just my preference in dressing etc, just because you don’t follow a stereotype of what a woman should be, it doesn’t make you trans! people out there are being torn to pieces for being trans and it’s not a CHOICE it’s who they are and she’s just made a joke of it. She really does just want it ALL 😂

                • x0xNakax0x
                  x0xNakax0x  2 days back

                  It might be an unpopular opinion, but I feel like the only thing you “choose” when you’re not straight/cis, is the term you want to be labelled as.

                  For example, I know some non straight people who prefer to be labelled as “bi” rather than “pan” even though they know it covers the same reality.

                  Some people like myself prefer to be labelled as “queer” because I’m like I know I’m not straight, I know I’m somewhere on the ace spectrum, and queer is the term I’m the most comfortable with (but I guess it’s not set in stone). If I ever want to change the way I label myself, it won’t change the way I feel anyway.

                  I won’t say anything about gender fluid and transgender people since I’m clearly cis and I don’t feel like I know enough.

                  Btw I don’t know the person in the video you watched, but to me she just seems really confused...

                  • Laura Pav
                    Laura Pav  2 days back

                    Just huh???
                    She Trisha was so hard to follow in the video. I'm just left thinking WTF. You need to go away and really think about what your saying and try again. Gender is not a choice!! Just Huh??

                    • Karli Habel
                      Karli Habel  2 days back

                      From watching her video, if she is truly confused, it seems to me like she might identify better as a non-binary person whose sexual orientation is either bi or polyamorous. It was so cringeworthy and, I’m sure, very triggering to watch.

                      • Jacquie Laurie
                        Jacquie Laurie  2 days back

                        A what gay man. Oh dear get yourself up off the floor and go and seek help. U look like a mess and seriously u need to stop this. Damn

                        • pinapplekiwi applesause

                          When she said all of them i thought maybe non binary and pan, but she said she doesn't like they them pronouns so maybe gender fluid is the closest we gonna get with her

                          • Little_Squidward
                            Little_Squidward  2 days back




                            YOU CAN BE EITHER BUT CAN'T _NOT_ BE A GIRL OR _NOT_ BE A BOY.

                            • Little_Squidward
                              Little_Squidward  2 days back

                              ~Trisha is not a man. She just doesn't know where she fits in. In this same video she says she feels like she is a gay man and then in the next line says she is comfortable in her female body which, as far as I the COMPLETE opposite of being trans..
                              ~I think, GENUINELY think Trisha needs to get off the internet for a long, long while and find out who she is without influence from outside opinion. She needs personal time to find love for herself and find out who she truly is.
                              ~Like Blaire White said at (in reference to 4:49) Being attracted to a gay man doesn't also make you a gay man. If you like Skittles and you have two bags of Skittles of course your're going to like the Skittles. (does that make sense?) Basically like.. she's not attracted to him BECAUSE he's gay, she's attracted to him because he's attractive.
                              ~And Trisha thinking that life with "male privilege" would be easier isn't a valid reason to transition. She still wouldn't be a biological
                              Trisha thinking male privilege exists is already a problem.
                              ~Gender might not be a choice but the day to decided to finally transition and live as a man certainly was.
                              ~8:59 I think hearing "having gender dyspohira//body identity disorder is not an easy thing to have" would be a little more correct because there are some people who know they have GD or BID and DON'T want to transition. Having those disorders (^) might not be a choice, just like depression or BPD isn't but choosing to finally transition and live, physically, as the opposite gender is.
                              ~ 11:23 Having short hair is liberating. Doesn't make you a man.
                              ~ From what I've heard, AT MOST, Trisha sounds like she would be trans masculine, which from what I've witnessed is playing the part of the opposite gender, wearing the clothes and the hair styled without actually putting any effort into fully transitioning. Like, not taking testosterone, not cutting her hair, not removing her breasts, nothing that would more closely represent a masculine body.

                              • freakindamnshiki
                                freakindamnshiki  2 days back

                                you touch on a point that seems to be an issue no one talks about, main stream media seems to spotlight people that see transgender as a choice, i-m a male, i just have a friend in the exact position as you, a female to male trans person, and it was rough for him, and he-s pissed off everytime people say it is a life choice...

                                • jasmine micallef
                                  jasmine micallef  2 days back

                                  I don’t get what’s so wrong doesn’t that just mean that she’s non binary?

                                  • Freya Greaves
                                    Freya Greaves  2 days back

                                    His voice is hella soothing

                                    • Thorn. Rose . Galaxy
                                      Thorn. Rose . Galaxy  2 days back

                                      Gender fluid people: Are kinda male and female in a way

                                      • Rox Davo
                                        Rox Davo  2 days back

                                        I'm figuring out my gender right now and honestly, you really can't choose gender, somedays, I feel like a man so much it physically hurts to look at myself, and other days I feel like a genderless blob. You really don't have a choice.

                                        • shirific
                                          shirific  3 days back

                                          It sounds like she just feels encumbered by her femininity and is rejecting hyper-masculinity in other people which maybe got misinterpreted as wanting to be trans?

                                          • Thoth
                                            Thoth  3 days back

                                            I’m a gay man and I would totally date a trans person, I mean I do have a crush on @jammidodger.

                                            • 0BLUE 0
                                              0BLUE 0  2 days back

                                              Too bad for you that he is taken

                                          • Bucky Barnes
                                            Bucky Barnes  3 days back

                                            Me, watching Trisha Paytas:
                                            Two of my last three braincells: bai bish.

                                            • ArrowHead
                                              ArrowHead  3 days back

                                              She just seems confused. Labels can be very confusing at times. I still can't figure if I'm bisexual or demisexual. I think she is probably cis and just doesn't understand.

                                              • Evan Vog
                                                Evan Vog  3 days back

                                                I have seen deferent youtubers react to Trisha.
                                                It sounds like Trisha is a woman who wants male privilege and go after gay man.

                                                • Véronique Gosselin
                                                  Véronique Gosselin  3 days back

                                                  I've had issues with my identity as a female until my early twenties. She obviously associated something she wants to being a man and mixes both together. In my case, I wanted to be closer to my father like my brother was. It took some therapy before realising what I really wanted. I'd say, the easiest way to know for sure is to ask yourself, when you look in the mirror, what do you want the reflexion to look like? I usually wanted bigger breasts, quite a good indicative of wanting to be female (or queer, gender fluid and other possible identities I don't discard).

                                                  • Any Prek
                                                    Any Prek  3 days back

                                                    I am a cisgender hetero woman and i NEVER care about my hair, I don't have any make up, no really feminine clothes.... I might identify as Trisha Paytas. A new kind of identity. Sometimes.

                                                    • PrincessKLS
                                                      PrincessKLS  4 days back

                                                      I personally think she's trolling and her appearance on the doctors was a disgrace.

                                                      • Run With Scizzors
                                                        Run With Scizzors  4 days back

                                                        How did I go from gay Italian men to this?

                                                        • Zachary Ethan
                                                          Zachary Ethan  4 days back


                                                          • Llama PANwaffle
                                                            Llama PANwaffle  4 days back

                                                            “People saying I’m a they” no...
                                                            People are saying “please use they/them pronouns for me”

                                                            • Marie Cramer
                                                              Marie Cramer  4 days back

                                                              Im super happy cus i was in a relationship with a straight guy who wanted me to be a straight lady and almost married him. I recently left him, came out as genderfluid, my best friend who was a non transitioning trans woman left her wife who didnt want her to transition, we got together, and i just moved in with my beautiful girlfriend and we are both living our best lives expressing our gender the way we want to!

                                                              • Forever England
                                                                Forever England  4 days back

                                                                Children are still starving and don’t have access to fresh water (unbelievable, can’t get my brain around that - water) Sorry you were about to say something important - Oh again No one cares we’re happy for you to be what you want , really the only people who need to know are your family and friends we’ve got our own shit to deal with-believe it or not...The trans train we all had tickets and it’s left the station, next destination please

                                                                • Forever England
                                                                  Forever England  4 days back

                                                                  No one cares !!
                                                                  Seriously-No one Cares
                                                                  We are judged in the way we interact, are we a good person generally

                                                                  • Kira Aisling
                                                                    Kira Aisling  4 days back

                                                                    I think she was high making this video

                                                                    • starkidding around
                                                                      starkidding around  4 days back

                                                                      Trisha said a lot of things in that particular video that made me want to bang my head against a wall, but the they/them pronouns really got me. I seriously cannot believe she is that dim

                                                                      • Jennifer
                                                                        Jennifer  4 days back

                                                                        Sounds like a transtrender tbh

                                                                        • Èlia Gàmiz
                                                                          Èlia Gàmiz  5 days back

                                                                          Gender is not determinated by your sexual attraction😅

                                                                          • Èlia Gàmiz
                                                                            Èlia Gàmiz  5 days back

                                                                            I feel pitty for her, i wish they gets educated and make up their mind

                                                                            • Garth The Great
                                                                              Garth The Great  5 days back

                                                                              yoooo, i love you! just found your channel. my boyfriend and i are both trans men and deal with a lot of shit from our classmates (we freshmen) and still gotta deal with family. i got lucky and my mom is SUPER supportive and i’ll be starting T soon. he can’t start T tho cause his mom sucks and is not supportive at all and is crazy in general. she found out we did the dirty (yes we are way too young don’t do that as a child it’s bad) and tried to beat him with the metal end of the belt, doesn’t let us see eachother at all, sent a kid in at school to make sure we weren’t together, and threatened to shoot me. then grounded my boyfriend because we called the cops about a gun threat. he’s safe for now and i check him for bruises to make sure he isn’t hurt. my mom is like his second mom. once he’s 16 or 17 he might be able to get out of the house and live at my moms (my mom is the best and SUPER chill and supportive) but that’s wishful thinking. anyway love your channel and rep of the trans community. definitely telling him about this channel.

                                                                              • Finn Snow
                                                                                Finn Snow  5 days back

                                                                                5:34 FREUD he was right!

                                                                                • Makalia Weeks
                                                                                  Makalia Weeks  5 days back

                                                                                  Clearly , Trish has mighty mega morphing powers

                                                                                  • ERROR06
                                                                                    ERROR06  5 days back

                                                                                    Im sorry you dont need to put on makeup to be a girl

                                                                                    • happy fries
                                                                                      happy fries  5 days back

                                                                                      I personally get offended when she says "they is confusing"

                                                                                      I'M NOT A MATHS EQUATION! IT'S NOT COMPLICATED!

                                                                                      • Little_Squidward
                                                                                        Little_Squidward  2 days back

                                                                                        Well, she probably meant that she was confused because in English, 'they' typically refers to more than one person OR someone who's gender is unknown. ..not someone who denounces their gender and is, let's say, non-binary.

                                                                                      • oh my
                                                                                        oh my  2 days back

                                                                                        Omg same. I'm just an actual mess if a human beings but yeah xx

                                                                                    • Arimo Kai
                                                                                      Arimo Kai  5 days back

                                                                                      What I heard all the video: "I'm tomboy, lazy, like gay men and don't like being harassed by older guys. So i'M A GuY"

                                                                                      As a pansexual, I'm offended
                                                                                      As non binary, I'm offended
                                                                                      As a person, I'm worried about her (?)
                                                                                      I just feel like that video was she talking about "how stereotypes are everything and you should consider trans if you don't follow them". She (?) should search about things before you talk about them, really, it's offensive, confusing, strange and it makes me feel ashamed for her (?)

                                                                                      • Poseidon
                                                                                        Poseidon  2 days back

                                                                                        Every word she said fused together in my brain. I just couldn’t understand what the hell she was on about.

                                                                                    • SomethingIncredible
                                                                                      SomethingIncredible  5 days back

                                                                                      The "not being able to satisfy a gay partner" part pissed me off so much, I'm a gay trans man in a relationship with a gay cis man and the implication that our relationship is less legitimate or satisfying is honestly kind of offensive.

                                                                                    • cherri
                                                                                      cherri  5 days back

                                                                                      as a nonbinary person, this hurt to watch

                                                                                      • Llama PANwaffle
                                                                                        Llama PANwaffle  4 days back

                                                                                        Especially the part where she says you can’t use they/them pronouns...

                                                                                    • Krabb Cake
                                                                                      Krabb Cake  5 days back

                                                                                      I don't think I'm good enough at identifying gay/straight men to have an actual preference. Unless she just means she's attracted to effeminate men.